But if "Yes means yes" means "Silence means jail", then there's a burden on the woman at every moment to express (or pretend) enthusiasm. But with "No means no" and "Silence means probably", she only has to express the occasional "No". And it will never be completely safe to rely on every man always accepting "Yes means yes"; for safety she must learn and be ready to actually say "No".
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But if "Yes means yes" means "Silence means jail", then there's a burden on the woman at every moment to express (or pretend) enthusiasm. But with "No means no" and "Silence means probably", she only has to express the occasional "No". And it will never be completely safe to rely on every man always accepting "Yes means yes"; for safety she must learn and be ready to actually say "No".