:( Ugh.

There's a woman I'm still friends-of-friends with who raped a woman and then publically shamed her when the woman privately accused her of rape. And it's really shameful and confusing when I (v rarely) interact with her, because I don't want to be friendly with her, and yet I fear the fight. More significantly, I know this happened is that the rapist forwarded the private email to hundreds of people at their shared arts college and then complained about it to our mutual friend. So there's something genuinely difficult about making it public or reacting publically, I think. Dunno. :(